I joined Facebook about a year ago. I was nervous but with some trepidation, I joined. I felt that this would be another avenue to spread more information my doll sales and restoration further. I also had many friends who wanted me to join. I am always careful about posting private information and it is fun to see friends and family post pictures of holidays and such. I really am not much of a Chat person on Facebook. I like to post pictures of new dolls clothing and information. Recently I had a friend of mine add me to a Facebook group called Antique Doll Lovers. It is really very nice and I found it very enjoyable, also a bit addicting! I love talking dolls with others and that is what the site is all about. I also was able to put faces to some of my doll customers throughout the United States, so it has been a great experience. But recently I was invited to join a few other doll groups, one in particular called Composition Doll Lovers, which I thought would be perfect for me. I posted information about myself and my Doll Repair business, and I had a number of very nice posts and welcome messages from other doll lovers. They commented about my website and work, and that it was great to have me as part of the group. Then I had a post from a woman who also repairs dolls. Her posts were very brisk, and basically I found forward and a bit rude. She informed me that she also restores dolls, and I should read her site(which I did, and I told her it was very nice). And I found in a few very short posts that she was basically following my posts and interjecting her opinions in a very rude manner. The whole idea of these groups is to enjoy each others information and photographs and the basic overall love of dolls, whether you are a doll collector, doll hospital, doll expert. I went through the older posts of this group and found a definite pattern of this woman's behavior. She would voice her opinions and if someone had a different one she became rude and people are actually blocking her from the conversations!! Well I have only been a member of this club for a few days and I already turned off my Notification button. This allows you to know whenever someone posts a message on the groups site. I want enjoyment from these groups not confrontation from insecure individuals who think that they have the only "license" to restore dolls and that their methods are the only way to repair dolls. I am friendly with many other doll artists and doll hospitals. I have referred people to other doll hospitals. I did find her site very unfriendly. Her information is basically thrown at you in a very unpleasant manner, basically telling a potential customer if their doll is not restored the way she wants to do it, or they allow someone else to do it, it won't be properly restored. But I will talk about this in my next blog, which will be about Composition Doll Repair, and how many are changing these dolls so drastically, that the dolls are losing the integrity and originality of their former selves. I myself find this so upsetting. People who are new to compostion doll collecting see these overdone dolls on Ebay, pay exuberant prices, and do not realize the wonderful original dolls that they could get for the money they are spending. And sadly they could never resell these dolls for half of what they are paying. More later~~~